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Childhood Trauma, Nervous System Regulation · April 11, 2026

It’s Not a Personality Flaw: Why Shame Is at the Heart of Your Trauma Recovery

Image showing a man experiencing shame, surrounded by broken pottery and a alternative view of him standing in the sunlight, free of shame.

A 2024 study found that shame and emotion dysregulation together account for 59% of PTSD symptoms. Take a second and let that number land. Don’t rush past it. Fifty-nine percent. That means shame isn’t just a side effect of your trauma. It isn't a "bonus" symptom you have to deal with on the side. It is one of the main events. And yet, …

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Nervous System Regulation, Research on Healing Trauma · March 15, 2026

Your Body Isn’t Broken: How Stanford Research Explains Your Trauma Recovery Journey

If you are living with the long-term effects of childhood trauma, you’ve likely had days where you felt like your body was an unreliable narrator, or worse, an enemy. Maybe it’s a migraine that hits every time you try to set a boundary. Maybe it’s a digestive system that seems to react to everything, or a "brain fog" so thick you feel like …

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